Game Change

| July 23, 2011 | 3 Comments

I’m going to take a big risk this fall, and change my career from performing to teaching.   I might do this for three months, and I might keep doing it longer, depending on how it works out.  I’m going to teach classes and coach students in my field, acting.  I hope it will be deeply [...]

Risking Accepting Her Gift

| July 5, 2011 | 6 Comments

There I was . . . smack-dab in the middle of my pity-party, when she gave me her gift.  It was truly grace.  Un-asked for.  Un-deserved.  Pure gift.  There it was on the kitchen counter.  “Take yourself and a friend to the movie,” our pet sitter said, “Buy yourselves some popcorn.”  $40.00 My family had [...]

Risk, continued

| August 23, 2010 | 5 Comments

This month I am taking the risk I’ve written about several times:  I’m singing a recital in just a few short days.  I’ve done so much to prepare for this that it feels like less of a risk than it did.  But it’s still challenging, and I’m still nervous.  I think I will be jubilant [...]

Clearing the Clutter

| July 6, 2010 | 3 Comments

Not long ago my husband and I moved to a new town. Well, not “new” really. We had lived there when we were in high school and college, met each other there and married there. So, in a sense we were moving back home. Still, it was a big change because we had lived in [...]

Risk Your Muse

| February 10, 2010 | 5 Comments

Has anybody ever said to you, “You know, you really ought to be a “brain surgeon” or “ballerina” or “actor“ or “writer”? The possibilities are endless, it seems for things that others can suggest for us.  And it just seems so…I don’t know…risky. I was asked to write a prayer for a specific group and I was [...]

Living Into New Skin

| February 6, 2010 | 2 Comments

Well, I did it. I actually submitted an article for publication. I’ve thought about doing this, talked about doing this, imagined myself doing this for years and suddenly one day last October, I did it. I’m not sure what made the difference. I had just given a presentation telling about my experience of grief over [...]

You Gotta Know When To Hold ‘Em, When To Fold ‘Em

| January 29, 2010 | 3 Comments

Oh my! Is it time to blog again? Where did the time go? What risks did I take? Here are a few: 1) I risked embarrassment by bearing my soul to some of my colleagues. 2) Instead of being my usual accommodating self, I risked being harshly assessed by telling three of my students they [...]

The Risk of Relaxing

| November 23, 2009 | 1 Comments

I’ve taken two tremendous risks in my life:  starting a small business, and choosing to homeschool my daughter.  In both cases, I’m doing something that plenty of other people have done successfully.  I have mentors to guide me, friends to support me, and a belief that the rewards will far outweigh the risks. But I [...]