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It’s my birthday and I’ll do nothing if I want to!

| December 20, 2011 | 3 Comments

Just a quick note to with you my risk for the day. Today, I’ll be doing nothing that I don’t want to do.  It’s my birthday, and that’s just how it’s going to be. Sure, there is plenty to do.  Sure, I’ve already taken days off this month to be with family, and will be [...]

The Risk and Relief of Declaring Bankruptcy

| November 20, 2011 | 2 Comments

What will people say?  What will they think of me?  What if there is a really important email that I will lose?  What?  What in the world am I talking about? I’m talking about the fact that I took a risk this week, and declared bankruptcy. Email bankruptcy. What precipitated this huge life event?  My [...]

The Story of my Life, Altered (for a Change)

| October 23, 2011 | 5 Comments

As you know, a couple of years ago, I bravely stated on this blog that I was going on a diet.  I did what I said, and many months later, I reached the goal I had set for myself on that diet.  Yippee, right?  Well, not so fast… Now, some months after that, I have [...]

What if…

| September 20, 2011 | 2 Comments

As I sit before this blank screen, knowing it’s my day to contribute a post, yet not knowing what to write, I am reminded of what I tell my clients when they say they can’t think of any risks to take.  “Start with looking at your day,” I say.  “Is there anything that you want [...]

Just do it? I just did it!

| July 25, 2011 | 7 Comments

I haven’t written on my prescribed day in a while.  I guess I should be ashamed since it’s my own darned blog.  And I could certainly go there with myself.  But I’m not going to do that – not today, anyway.  I am simply going to check in, and let you know that, even though [...]

Risking a Big (Imperfect) Reveal!

| May 20, 2011 | 4 Comments

In fewer than 6 hours, I will be running a retreat.  In innumerable ways, I am excited about this.  The majority of the women I have been working with, in my Be You Out Loud group – and for a whole year now – are coming together for a celebratory completion of that process.  Many [...]

Risk Sucking? Permission Granted.

| April 20, 2011 | 3 Comments

Too often in life, we think (and I do mean to include myself here) that we have to do something well to be able to do it at all. The problem with this belief is that it’s shaming.  And shame (along with judgment and criticism), even though we tend to think of it as a [...]

Risking Living Priorities First

| January 20, 2011 | 4 Comments

Earlier this week, I had the pleasure of being on television.  Thanks to a connection made by my dear friend Tifin, I was invited to be a guest on “Calvin Floyd Live.“  It’s a weekday, noon-time talk show, broadcast out of WLTZ, the NBC affiliate in Columbus, Georgia. It was great fun, and I look [...]

Sally O’Malley and I are 50!

| December 20, 2010 | 6 Comments

It’s my 50th birthday – that’s right – today, December 20th, 2010. I feel sure my experience of turning 50 isn’t all that different than that most.  I feel 32, and when I look in the mirror, I see… someone else.  I’ve been familiar with sagging from the collar bones down for much of my [...]

A Powerful Trio of Fears

| November 20, 2010 | 1 Comments

The fear of failure, the fear of success, the fear of the unknown. These are a powerful trio. But there’s something inside each of us that’s even more powerful still. Read on to find out about this secret weapon…